What's good for the goose, is, as they say, good for ganders, too. In an area of your world, what suits someone else that you might have taken some time to coming around to accept looks set to suit or benefit you. It appears much easier to accept a situation than resist or continue trying to find flaws or faults in it. e willing to accept what you've been quick to reject and you'll likely find that, in time, you can gain in a way you'll be very pleased with.