whether or not we realize it, we all have at least one core issue (also called core conflict). A core issue is the underlying cause of some sort of recurring self-destructive behavior, whether that behavior is something as mild as being habitually late for important appointments (for example, job interviews!) or something as serious as being habitually involved with abusive romantic partners. While most of us have experienced, on occasion, the problems listed below, they are considered core issues only if they are responsible for most or all of the emotional difficulties we have as adults. Examples of core issues include, among others, the following.