Experiences make us understand more about ourselves and sometimes it makes us understand our stand point in life. Experiences remind us to reflect thing we have faced before. It’s a challenge that everyone has to face; sometime we even struggle with our own attitudes. Our experiences show our identity and sense of belonging. The core of our being that we have shown us our own identity and where we belong. However the most of the time experience will not be forgotten because it’s powerful and it’s in our subconscious feeling. By the time facing the obstacle by individual or with others will gain a strong sense of self and develop the relationship to even stronger.