My very dearest Kob.
Just a little bit about myself.
I came across this Idea of writing while chatting with your sister.
You are afraid of being decieved, I understand that, nobody wants that. Maybe you have been decieved before, I don't know. But a fact is, that "burn't child is afraid of the fire" this could be a good explanation.
A fact also is, that none of us can actualy promise the other never to decieve, the issue here being intent wher I can promise you, that I have no intent to decieve you.
Myself being very alergic to "failure" to be decieved by my fellow beings this is the last thing I would put anybody through from myself, least at all one I love so much as I have learned to love you.
I also demand absolute honesty from my fellow beings, if I discover I am being lied to, or decieved I do not want these people in my life at all.
Demanding this also requires me to give back the same, honesty and no intent of failure or decept.
It's that simple... I give back the same as I recieve.